My boyfriend watches porn everyday but only wants sex once a month | Sex


II’m 29 years old-old woman, my boyfriend is 32 and we’ve been together ever since more … than a year. We moved in together A month later Meet. At first we had an incredible love life, often having daily sex. But after six months was only once a week and it is now only once a week month. I tried to talk to him about his lack of desire but he said it only made it worse. Recently I found out he was watching porn every day and masturbatesthat he doesn’t want me to know about. I do not understand why he doesn’t want to sleep with me but love watching porn. Is it because he wants other girls, or is he bored of what we are doing? He said he loved me and he shows it in other ways. Do you think things will be change? I love it, but I want have a good sex life, too.

You are smart to consider the long-term possibilities of your relationship. It is still early in your discovery of each other, both sexually and in terms of other important factors such as trust. To be truly intimate and happy, a couple must be able to talk about important matters, trust each other, and listen to each other’s needs. In your case, none of these things seem to be present. Sometimes couples need to learn how to have meaningful conversations about trust and sex productively without feeling blamed — and a therapist can help. Some men are compulsively obsessed with porn to the extent that they need professional help. You should talk about your needs and find out why exactly he withdrew sexually. There may be a medical or psychological reason, so try to approach him as help, without blame – and without assuming he’s no longer attracted to you.

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